Success Management: The Defeat of all Cancers

We all have problems, challenges, and seemingly impossible tasks to accomplish.  Yesterday, we read the story of Job: he was a righteous man, yet he lost his wealth, family, and his health; not a good day for Job... Yet he did not quit.  

 

When problems strike, only 15% of all adults will survive and benefit from these temporary obstacles.   "Why?"  Because the other 85% may view problems as a link to failure and avoid success.  This 85% will quit, and await the next problem to penetrate their life.

In his book, The Psychology of Winning, author Denis Waitley says "Failure should be our teacher, not our undertaker. Failure is delay, not defeat. It is a temporary detour, not a dead end. Failure is something we can avoid only by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing"  and  "Success is almost totally dependent upon drive and persistence. The extra energy required to make another effort or try another approach is the secret of winning." 

The origin of both "Failure" and "Success" come is the same source:  Our thoughts from our mind.   Proverbs 23:7 says:  For as he thinks in his heart, so is he.   This means:

• If we decide to be happy, we will most likely have a good day
  
• If we decide to avoid our problems, we are needlessly complicating our futures
  
• If we anticipate success, failure is not an option.
  

On Tuesday I met Brian (not my son, Brian), an acquaintance from church, for coffee at the Quarry.  Brian is a seasoned husband and dad, a 20 plus year military officer, and a notable physician.   Two of his siblings are missionaries and they tell great stories!   Brian is so optimistic, intelligent and wise, encouraging, and gracious, I am humbled to be with him.  Part of his story is that for the past 6 1/2 years, he is winning his battle with cancer.  It is in remission, and statistically his cancer will return within 7 years, or less.  Whether you want to discuss GOD's Word, military history & strategies, children and family, or crack a joke, Brian will captivate you or be a responsive listener.  

So why is Brian so optimistic?  I think it is because he sees a picture greater than himself.  He honors GOD, his family and friends, plus he is a vital member of our Armed Forces.  Brian looks to a successful future, rather than his own premature demise.   I have mentioned two "Brian's", and they are both "WINNER"s, because they both rebuke failure and declare success, before it occurs.